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How to Use the Creepy “Stalker Method” to Obsessively Understanding Your Team

How to Use the Creepy “Stalker Method” to Obsessively Understanding Your Team

April 09, 20243 min read

Turning around a leadership team often feels like confronting the brutal truth that, despite everyone's best efforts, you're operating at a grade C level. Recognizing this reality is not an admission of failure but a courageous acknowledgment that there's significant room for growth and improvement. It's a pivotal moment where you pivot from complacency to a relentless pursuit of excellence, akin to adopting a 'stalker method' for leadership—a method that entails obsessively understanding every nuance of your team to enhance its performance and, metaphorically, up your service fees.

Facing the Reality

First off, let's be real: You're at a C level. This isn't about pointing fingers but establishing a starting line for improvement. Here's your first actionable, slightly creepy, stalker method: Start with the mirror exercise. Literally stand in front of a mirror with your team and ask, "What do we see?" It's about confronting the current state and starting the journey of obsessively understanding your team's dynamics. It's a deep dive into the raw, unvarnished truth of where you stand, far beyond surface-level observations.

Envisioning an A-Level Team

Now, picture this: one year from today, your team is killing it at an A-level. It’s a typical morning, but the energy is different. Meetings are dynamic, solutions are innovative, and everyone communicates with a newfound confidence. Feedback isn’t just accepted; it’s sought after. Challenges? They’re just puzzles waiting for a solution. This vision is grounded in the detailed insights from your obsessive understanding of your team.

Define the attributes of your A-level team including unwavering commitment, razor-sharp focus, seamless communication, and an unbreakable bond of trust and respect. These qualities aren't just wished into existence; they are meticulously cultivated through a deep, almost obsessive understanding of each team member's strengths, weaknesses, aspirations, and fears. Then put it all in your vision story.

Building the Bridge from C to A

Got a clear vision? Good. Now it’s time to build the bridge from C to A. This involves identifying specific areas for improvement and implementing strategies tailored to address these gaps. Enhancing communication, refining processes, bolstering skills, or shifting the team culture becomes a mission undertaken with the precision and dedication of a stalker—always watching, learning, and adapting. It's about creating a detailed action plan that not only aims for short-term wins but sets the stage for long-term excellence.Mirror the structured planning and execution outlined in my Six-Step Leadership Challenge, or better yet, try our Elite Performance Intensive for your custom road map in 4 hours.


Cultivating a Culture of Continuous Learning

Transforming from a C to an A isn’t just about one-off changes; it’s about embedding a culture of continuous learning into the fabric of your team. And how do we do that? By running experiments continuously. Think of it as donning your lab coat (metaphorically, unless that’s your style), and embracing every opportunity to test, learn, and evolve. It's not playing it safe; it's about pushing the envelope and learning relentlessly from both triumphs and setbacks.

Emphasizing Accountability and Ownership

And here’s where we get to the fun part: accountability and ownership. Setting clear expectations is just step one. The real magic happens in the follow-up. It’s about being that slightly annoying stalker who’s always there, asking, “Did you do the thing?” But here’s the twist: It's laced with a dash of professional sarcasm. “Oh, you tackled that without creating three new problems? Shocking!” It’s about maintaining a light-hearted yet focused atmosphere that keeps everyone aligned and moving forward.

Conclusion

Recognizing you’re operating at a C level is just the start of a journey that requires honesty, a touch of professional stalking, and a commitment to constant improvement. By obsessively understanding your team and applying targeted strategies, you set the stage for a transformation that's both achievable and sustainable. So, are you ready to get a bit creepy in the pursuit of excellence? Let's dive in and turn that C into an A with a strategy that's as focused as it is relentless.

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Jim Saliba

James is a 30+ year veteran in the Software and Technology industry. He shares with you his years of experience and winning ways to become a successful leader, while becoming 'unstuck' from the overwhelming challenges that hold us back from complete success.

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